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wayocross

wayocross has been a part of several ministries that involved men. He's aware of the many pit falls that men face including himself. He was born with a cleft palate and a speech impediment and as a result empathizes with men who have lost their way. He also recognizes that men being "self-sufficient" are often the last to know that they weren't. As a former leader in four churches and children's Sunday School teacher and children's tutor he sees the tragic future many youth face based on their own bad decisions learned from their parents (loosely interpreted). He believes scripture can be applied to most of the "hurts, habits, hang-ups, and addictions* that men face. * terminology borrowed from Celebrate Recovery ministry founded by John Baker at Saddleback Church in California.

Distorted Capitalism

I believe Capitalism was clearly defined by ther original European settlers who made their home in America. In their system everyone started off equal albeit some were indentured servants who still had oppotunities ahead of them once they completed their service. The freedom they enjoyed gave them great […]

Temporary Circumstances

We cannot understand our present troubles until we trust in God and give our concerns up to God.  Then we need to trust in God’s timetable and be ready to accept what He sends our way.  If a person has made bad choices or been the victim of crime, there may indeed be consequences that may change their current circumstances permanently.  Still we need to trust.  Don’t abandon the ship before God gives a solution.

Transparency Among Men

Rick Warren writes “Many Church Fellowships and Small Groups remain superficial because they are afraid of conflict.”  But real Spiritual growth and maturity take deliberate efforts, thoughtfulness, and commitment to do the hard work sculpting a new person who is accountable to God and his church community to be a strong, loving, and effective Christian who attracts non-believers.

Dysfunction of Cohabitation

This is a hot-button issue for me.  I will add more posts on this topic under the tag Cohabitation. While my wife and I have not had a perfect marriage – we’ve had an improving marriage. And joining a Bible believing church was the step in the right direction.

Fake News

To me what is worse is these attitudes in our church leaders. The credibility of our faith rests on our integrity. Even when we have point of view an unbeliever would disagree with, they will listen and not reject our faith as long as they can trust that we’re not into conspiracy theories.